People want to be heard. Listen to your clients, even when they're upset. Don't make excuses or anything, just let them talk. They mostly just want to be heard. Once they're calm, you can solve the problem.


21



There is so much darkness in the world - keep pushing back against it every way you can. Be a force for good.


14, 16, 21



If you sleep with a girl, always call or text the next day. Don't be a d-bag.


18



Sometimes I think the best way to take care of them is to teach them to take care of others: Littler kids, sick or disabled, those who’ve been left out.


5-7, 1Infant-12



Sometimes progress is slow - Keep working. Sometimes change is swift - hang on!


16



Practice these skills: Love yourself Respect yourself Value yourself Enjoy yourself


4, 6, 8, 12, 15, 17, 21



Bottom line bible quote: Psalm 37:3 “Trust in the LORD and do good.” That pretty much covers everything.


13, 21



Anger diffuser game to help better understand coping skills when angry


8-18



Remember that whoever you’re grieving would only want the best for you.


20



When trying to make a u-turn with a tight turning radius, go VERY slow. .You’ll be more likely to make it and if you don’t make it you won’t cause damage.)


16



The more you want, the less you get.


14, 16, 21



Check your ego. Often.


17, 21



When you’re tired, the next best thing to sleep is a shower.


16



Read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe together.


8



Try out Petra Lingua online language courses for kids. (Ages 3-10)


4



First date going extremely well? Thinking u might score? Slow down. A woman always wants to feel like she’s worth waiting for.


20



Drill on stuff that will be valuable throughout their lifetime: Vocabulary, geography, addition and subtraction.


10, 12, 14, 20



Look into a class for meditation for kids. I read an article on a Baltimore elementary school that replaced detention with meditation and had amazing success.


6



When you know better, do better. No one is born a fully actualized human being! We are all in the process of becoming who we wish to be.


16, 21



Harm springs from excess.


12



Name five women who contributed to our country’s history.


8, 13, 16



Open a Bank Account


8-12



Hand out tulip bulbs (or some sort of bulbs) at my funeral and ask people to plant a few in their yard. But NOT daffodils. I hate daffodils. And lilies, hate ‘em.) So tulips then.


21



I hope you find a partner with who are your most authentic self, and who you love for who they genuinely are.


15, 21



Key to a happy marriage: each of you must love and support the person in front of them. Not the person you married or the person you hope they will grow into. We all change and grow. Not all of it is for the better, especially our looks ha ha. We shouldn’t make our spouse feel obligated to stay the same person they were when we fell in love with them. In marriage as in business as in life: If you’re not growing you’re dying.


21



There are all kinds of parenting and mommy blogs with good resources. A quick Google search will get you started.


Infant



To paraphrase Ted Lasso, it’s the people who think they’ve got it all figured out who delight in judging people and events. It’s better to be open minded, ask questions. Be curious, not judgmental.


15, 21



Model good nutrition and fitness routine.


4



Adjust your expectations but never lower your standards.


12, 15, 18, 21