“It’s alright to be yourself. There ARE people in this world who will love you.” -Fred Rogers


12, 14, 17, 21



First date going extremely well? Thinking u might score? Slow down. A woman always wants to feel like she’s worth waiting for.


20



Always hold the door open for the next person.


4-14



When baby has prolonged diarrhea and her butt is really sore, mix a concoction of 50/50 Aquafor and Mylanta to use as a diaper cream.


Infant-2



Watch awards shows (Oscars, Grammy's, Tony's, ESPY's, Image Awards and CNN Heroes awards.) Be a part of your times, appreciate others' accomplishments. Be inspired.


8-18



Two instances when exercise is unhealthy: when you’re only doing it because you want to lose weight or because you’re terrified you will gain weight.


14, 18, 21



Teach them about shaken baby syndrome.


13



Check out from the library or Amazon: “My First Money Book: A Guide for Parents and Children to Saving, Spending, Sharing, and Investing Your Money” by Reggie Nelson


8



Read A Mother’s Reckoning by Sue Klebold (mother of Columbine shooter.)


12



Always keep a clean rag within arm’s reach in the car. You never know when you might need to clean-up a spill or smash a spider while driving 50mph.


16



The opposite of depression is expression.


15



Not knowing what you’re doing is a lot less terrifying than not knowing who to trust.


14, 19, 21



Surprise! You’re not perfect. No one is. Do your best, but don’t expect perfection from yourself or any other human, young or old. Have compassion...We’re all in this together and we need each other to be kind and encouraging.


17, 21



Be extra careful when you’re parking or pulling out of a driveway. It’s hard to see little kids or pets.


16



Grandpa used to describe injuries and medical procedures as “It’s a nothin.” I think of this every time I have to endure something painful.


14, 18



Think about building a career. Take low-paying or no-paying jobs that will give you the experience you need to build it. It's not all about the paycheck, especially when you're young and don't have too many bills to pay.


19-21



Pour energy into what’s right with you and see what happens.


20, 21



Challenge: Memorize and recite The New Colossus by Emma Lazarus.


10



Quoting Glennon Doyle: “Things can feel hard and sad and still be exactly right, all at the same time.” She’s referring to her divorce but the sentiment applies to all kinds of tough choices that we all make. Very few choices feel 100% right.


17



"The idea that some lives matter less is the root of all that is wrong with the world." - Paul Farmer


15, 21



There’s an art to speaking harsh truths in a delicate way. There’s an art in describing a ridiculous person or thing without being insulting. Mark Twain was a master at it. Read up!


17, 21



I hope you find a partner with who are your most authentic self, and who you love for who they genuinely are.


15, 21



Build a backyard adventure camp


8



I wish I had heard this in my 20’s. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRtFBvGr/


20



I’m going to keep from telling them how to feel.


4-18



Google the “tea metaphor” for a discussion about consent.


17



The $@!#% never ends. Dealing with the $@!#% IS your job. If you think you’ll ever reach a “post-$@!#%” stage in your life, you’re wrong.


14, 19



Never any point in arguing with drunks or fools.


17



Start playing Jokers and Marbles. Get it on Amazon or Etsy.


9



Action is the antidote to anxiety.


12, 14, 17, 21