Put your purse, (wallet,bag, phone, or shoe) in the backseat with the baby. Unattended babies die every day and it’s my worst nightmare.


Infant-3, 21



Beware of people that try and rial you up. Who benefits from what they’re saying? Are they trying to sell you something? Are they trying to scare you or appealing to other base emotions or prejudice? Are they qualified on the subject, or do they just have an opinion? Plenty of good, smart people get radicalized


13, 17, 21



It’s hard to want something and not have it. Kids have to learn how to sit with that.


3-17



Check out Long Lake Summer Camp in NY. Theater, the arts, etc.


12, 13, 14, 15, 16



“Don’t chase your dreams


14, 17, 20, 21



"The idea that some lives matter less is the root of all that is wrong with the world." - Paul Farmer


15, 21



“You don’t get what you deserve. You get what you negotiate.” - name escapes me


15, 19, 21



Avoid love bombing.


15, 17, 21



Soap and water go a long way towards fixing many problems.


12, 19



I’m going to start you in Mathnasium or some other STEM (math) activity. Not because I want u to score high on your SAT but because I want You to be confident in your math skills you will use it every day and it will come in handy no matter what you choose to do for a living


7



In the wise words of Taylor Swift, you don’t have to forgive or forget in order to move on. You can just…move on.


15, 21



Send thank you acknowledgemnt for gifts received


1-21



1

Bring Christmas cookies to local fire station and police station. (Annually)


7-14



Give yourself a break from thinking about yourself.


13, 16, 21



At the hospital? Always confirm your name and date of birth and why you’re there.


16



General rule for health and happiness: avoid excess.


10, 14, 17, 21



Be a good guest. Never arrive to a dinner or a party empty handed. Bring a gift: flowers, food, drink, etc.


18



"Love is nothing more and nothing less than relentlessly showing up for your people." - Glennon Doyle


18-21



You can’t ask someone to change who they are before you live or accept them.


12, 15, 21



Read If He Had Been With Me by Laura Nowlin. Young adult coming of age story.


14, 17



“Abhor what is evil. Hold fast to what is good.”


10, 12, 14, 16, 18, 21



Give your all on the job, from your first day to your last day there. If you’re all caught up on your work help someone else with theirs.


17, 21



Dress to people will listen to you, not look at you. (This is especially true at school and work.)


15, 18, 21



1

Make sure they have resources other than us. Hotlines for teens such as Boys Town National Hotline, National $@!#% Prevention Lifeline, etc.


12



When someone gets upset for seemingly no reason maybe it’s not something you did or said but something you simply triggered. Try not to get defensive. Either gently remove yourself from the situation or if you want to engage with them just ask “what did I trigger?” Or “what story are you telling yourself right now?” Then, just listen.


20



Give him a copy of The Secret Lives of Great Composers by Elizabeth Lunday.


14



Plan a trip to Disney this year.


6



Glennon Doyle described a conversation about explaining to a child what "sexy" means: “I think most people are confused about what 'sexy' means. Sexy is a grown-up word to describe a person who’s confident that she is already exactly who she was made to be. A sexy woman knows herself and she likes the way she looks, thinks, and feels. She doesn’t try to change to match anybody else. “And she knows how to use her words to tell people she trusts about what’s going on inside of her. When she’s angry, she expresses her anger in healthy ways. When she’s joyful, she does the same thing. “She doesn’t hide her true self because she’s not ashamed. She knows she’s just human—exactly how God made her and that’s good enough. She’s brave enough to be honest and kind enough to accept others when they’re honest. When two people are sexy enough to be brave and kind with each other, that’s love." (The quote is longer, Google to find the whole thing. Wise words on a tough subject.)


8



When you’re tired, the next best thing to sleep is a shower.


16



Watch the local news together.


12