Check out the website Brightly for timely and age-appropriate book recommendations. All sorts of subjects and themes.


5-12



“Pain that is not transformed is transmitted.” Fr. Richard Rohr


14



ABC's of video game addiction: Autonomy, Belonging, Control. Try to find ways to developing these things in areas outside of gaming. Games are great, but not at the expense of everything else.


1Infant-13



1

Action is the antidote to anxiety.


12, 14, 17, 21



Plan trip to Outside Lands music festival at Golden Gate Park


17



Look into going to college abroad. Research international universities. Spain, Netherlands, etc.


15, 16



Summer Olympics for neighborhood kids. Create events in all kinds of sports, games and skills. Mix it up so the littler ones and the less athletically inclined have something they can succeed at too.


8-12



Grandpa used to keep a hundred dollar bill stashed discreetly in his wallet “for emergencies.”


17



Be a safe place. Teach them to be a safe place too.


12



Watch awards shows (Oscars, Grammy's, Tony's, ESPY's, Image Awards and CNN Heroes awards.) Be a part of your times, appreciate others' accomplishments. Be inspired.


8-18



In professional setting: Limit one exclamation point per email, if any. Definitely no emoticons.


19



Your job is to help your kids find themselves, not to implant an agenda of your own.


1, 5, 10, 15, 20



A simple blessing to silently pray over someone: “May he (she) be healthy, May he be safe. O Lord bless him with peace and joy.” Pray for people you know, for strangers on the elevator, for teachers, world leaders, friends or foes, etc. It’s one way to make the world a better place, and it turns your heart closer to God.


15



Everything not saved will be lost. This is true for documents in Word and in life.


16



“Beer muscles” is when guys gain a sense of indestructibility, an exaggerated sense of their own strength. Fights and aggressive behavior ensues.


15



Plants eat sunlight. Eat mostly plants.


14, 17, 21



“People speak of hope as if it is this delicate, ephemeral thing made of whispers and spider's webs. It's not. Hope has dirt on her face, blood on her knuckles, the grit of the cobblestones in her hair, and just spat out a tooth as she rises for another go.” -unknown


17, 19, 21



Remind them they’re safe to feel whatever they’re feeling.


2, 12, 21



Be thankful for opportunities to be of service. It means God is trusting you to help.


8-14



I did my best to guide you, but I’m sure there are many areas where my take is just not aligned with yours. That’s okay! Bunny please don’t feel any obligation to believe what I believe or take any advice, or continue any tradition mentioned in this Coda.


21



If you want to know what a woman wants in a man, I have a simple answer for you: watch the movie Scent of a Woman starring Al Pacino. Specifically, the tango scene.


14, 17, 21



When driving in the car with your kids, ask them to count motorcycles, cyclists, pedestrians. Prize to the highest count! This will train them to be on the lookout for them.


10



Kindness + Confidence = secret to success and “popularity.”


10, 12, 13, 14, 15, 17, 18, 21



Universal Studios


12-18



The moment you lose your cool, you’ve lost.


12,13, 14, 15, 16, 21



Make sure you always have Uber gift cards on hand for friends, emergencies or whatever.


15-18



Look for examples of people who have dealt with loss without giving in to bitterness. What do they have in common?


17



Find one or two scary documentaries on the dangers of gambling. Watch together. Betting on sports is a big thing in some schools and I want to scare the $@!#% out of him about how bad gambling can screw up his life. Check online tools from gamblers anonymous.


15



“You matter to me.” Is a beautiful way to express your feelings when a relationship is new.


15, 17, 21



Watch the political conventions every election year. Listen and decide for yourself.


17, 18, 21