Japanese multiplication (counting lines.)


8



Show up. Be there when people are counting on you. Be at the celebrations and the funerals. Be at work and school when you're supposed to be.


12-19



Your brain seeks novelty. Try new things as long as you live. Take risks (but not safety risks!)


20



Have fun at parties! Mingle, dance, participate in the good energy. But if there’s drinking to excess, someone needs to be lifeguard. Young people don’t know how dangerous alcohol can be. And sadly, someone needs to be bodyguard. Men often try to take advantage of intoxicated women.


14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19



Fire drills. Practice what to do, where to go if the house is on fire. Have an escape plan.


5-10



Be teachable. If you walk around thinking you know it all, your career and relationships will suffer. Consider how much you have to learn and welcome any opportunity to learn. “Teach me” instead of “I don’t know.”


16



Struggle is just part of the process. It doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong or you’re dumb. It’s a key element of how we all learn.


11



There is an expression “God only gives you what you can handle.” I think that’s backwards. I think that God gives you the grace you need to handle whatever comes your way. He is faithful and generous. I think that’s what “Be not afraid” means.


17



In professional setting: Limit one exclamation point per email, if any. Definitely no emoticons.


19



Be the kind of man that people feel safe around. Safe from harm, safe from judgment and safe from ridicule.


17



Practice your signature


13



“All the best things in life live on the other side of fear.” - Will Smith’s grandmother.


20



Keep screen time to a minimum.


2-8



Always wear an undershirt with a dress shirt.


15



Life isn’t a straight line, it’s so much more complex than that! Good things, bad things, boring or interesting things are all always happening. And always changing. So are you. And that’s good.


17, 21



Trying to avoid the real work makes the task 100 times harder. Do the work.


9, 15, 21



Try not to confuse excess with quality. It’s okay not to have the biggest house on the block. It’s okay not to drive the fanciest car.


21



Consider the source. When you get information, look at where or who it’s coming from. Do you trust them? Are they an expert? When someone criticizes you. Do they know why they’re talking about and are they taking chances themselves. Pay no attention to hecklers.


15



We can disagree with people and still be respectful of them. (When what they espouse is something that hurts people, that’s where you can draw the line.)


16



Stuff is gonna happen! They will make incredibly stupid choices and get into all kinds of trouble. Take a beat. Be radically merciful. THAT is what they’ll remember and that is the lesson they’ll learn.


12-21



Practice a neutral expression: Interested but not excited. A “poker face” is a good skill to know and will come in handy a lot!


13, 16, 18, 21



Read "You Can’t buy a Dinosaur with a Dime" by Harriet Ziefert. Teaches kids about earning money through work, making choices, even paying taxes!


9



When it comes to conflict- what is your part in things?


15, 21



Teach them about shaken baby syndrome.


13



Everything not saved will be lost. This is true for documents in Word and in life.


16



It’s okay if you don’t know how (or don’t want) to move on. Start with something easier…just don’t go back.


16



“You will use up everything you got trying to give people what they want.” —- Nina Simone


17



You should feel safe with friends. They shouldn’t try to get you hurt or in trouble. Anyone who makes you feel unsafe is not your friend.


8-15



Read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe together.


8



Re-Read Tim Russert's Big Russ and Me.


14