Sometimes (oftentimes) the truth is easier to find than to face.


14, 20



Treat your subordinates as if you’ll be working for them someday.


21



Go to minor league baseball games this summer. Better seats, less crowds, easier, cheaper. Great players. Kids won't know the difference.


9-15



“If you can’t figure something out, figure out how to figure it out.” - Paul Graham


18



Start saving for retirement with your very first paycheck. Put away the MAX, you’ll never miss it. If the company doesn’t offer 401k then we’ll open a Roth IRA.


18



Send thank you acknowledgemnt for gifts received


1-21



1

Look into Space Camp for next year


8



Some people think the world owes THEM. They have a backwards. We are servants. How can we best serve?


12-21



Purpose is more important than happiness. Having a purpose (or looking for it) will save you. (And sometimes finding a *new* purpose is what you need.)


16, 21



Gambling is designed to be seductive- Everything about casinos and online gambling sites is about getting you to hand over your cash. It’s a scam. Don’t fall for it!


15, 18



Kindness is magic.


11, 15, 21



“You will encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.” -Maya Angelou


17



Universal Studios


12-18



Sometimes there’s nothing else to do with the pain except to use it to build a new life.


13. 17, 19, 21



Consider the source. When you get information, look at where or who it’s coming from. Do you trust them? Are they an expert? When someone criticizes you. Do they know why they’re talking about and are they taking chances themselves. Pay no attention to hecklers.


15



You are a miracle. Take good care of yourself: Mind, body and soul.


21



Read (or listen to) The Greatest Generation by Tom Brokaw together as a family. It's broken up into small vignettes so it's easy to get through bit by bit.


15



You are never too old to play in the snow.


16



"Surround yourself with people who trust and get YOU." - Josh Groban, High Point University 2018 commencement address. Note, I love that quote because it speaks to having a tribe, a close group of friends. But it's also important to surround yourself with people who challenge you, who may not agree with you or have the same perspective as you do.


14-19



Summers in Ireland and UK Drama camps? I could work from there while he did his thing.


12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17



It’s when the sh*t hits the fan that real discipleship begins.


21



Two big things. Control yourself, not others. Learn to react less.


12, 16, 19, 21



That little space between stimulus and response...that’s all the control we get. That space is ours to do with. That space is fertile ground for addiction, for faith, for peace or pain. When the sh*t hits the fan, resist the urge to run away from the pain. Trying to dull it will only make it grow deeper roots.


19



Introduction to 70’s Southern Rock. Skynyrd, Allman Bros, etc.


14



Read JAMA article by Brooke Peterson Gabster.


18



I don’t want you to do drugs. It could hurt or $@!#% you. If you get caught doing drugs it could hurt your academic record


12, 15, 18



They can shower themselves if you install a hand-held shower head and install a suction cup wall-mount shower head holder lower on the shower wall. It’s easy to do and very cheap. They love it!


4-6



Better to be a little hungry than too full.


15, 21



Book recommendation: “Star Fish” by Lisa Fipps.


11



Think about building a career. Take low-paying or no-paying jobs that will give you the experience you need to build it. It's not all about the paycheck, especially when you're young and don't have too many bills to pay.


19-21