Led Zeppelin, Queen, The Who, Lynyard Skynard. Listen with headphones, listen alone, listen with friends. So many more good bands but if you start with these you’ll be well on your way.


15, 17, 21



Explain the concept: "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar."


6



Read Harry Potter series to him / with him.


9-10



“Natural” deodorant doesn’t work. Go with trusted brands here. There are times when it’s fine not to look your best, but stinky is never okay.


13, 18



Show up. Be there when people are counting on you. Be at the celebrations and the funerals. Be at work and school when you're supposed to be.


12-19



Drills (Writing pages of lines, grammar games,etc) Contractions, pronouns, commonly misspelled words, homophones like their and they’re, etc.) Drill drill drill! Written communication is so important and a simple mistake could cost big points at work.)


12



Sex: There's no single way to do it "right" but there are lots of ways to do it wrong. Not being respectful and tender towards your partner is usually at the root of "wrong" ways to do it. Also, there is no rush. You may think all your friends are "doing it." They're not. Take your time.


16



A hard day’s work is something to be proud of, not afraid of.


8, 12, 15, 20



Consider the source. Consider whose company they are in. You may not know much about issue xyz but look and see who endorses them. If people you trust place trust in them.


11, 13, 15, 18, 21



“Bullies are scared people hiding inside scary people.” -Michelle Obama


8-12



Actions have consequences- so does inaction. Avoiding a problem or decision is not an effective solution.


18



Ask your emotions “why” three times.


14, 16, 21



Staying calm while under pressure or when you could scream in frustration - that is most of the battle. Sometimes the fact that you stayed calm qualifies as a win.


16, 21



Stay put, don’t wonder if lost when we hike.


2, 3, 5



Healing happens when you give up the hope that the past could have been any different. xoxo


20



Have dinner guests sign the under side of the dining room table. Let the kids’ friends sign too - or have their own version of a guestbook - the inside of a cabinet or the basement door, etc.


5, 12-14



Happiness, beauty, health, fun, success: define for yourself what each of those things mean. People and society are gonna try and convince you to share their definitions…don’t let them.


13, 15, 17, 21



Whether they’re young or old, try not to under-estimate people. Most people will impress the heck out of you.


15



Are they (we) getting enough quiet?


8, 12-14



Hydrolaunch Water Rocket outdoor sprinkler toy. Summer fun plus a little science lesson. On Amazon


5



take advantage of the bike trail. Bike places as a family.


11



Santa not being real https://i.pinimg.com/736x/73/39/2a/73392a10d420aed79074da6511b131a7.jpg


11



Start saving money early. Save as much as you can. There are plenty of things worth spending your money on, but be mindful about your money - Don’t p*ss it away.


15, 20



Have somebody take him skiing. I never learned to ski but I hope he learns to ski or snowboard.


6-11



Start a tradition of asking them to memorize and recite a poem or famous speech for a gift for Mother’s Day, Christmas, etc. Start small with the little ones, expand as they get older.


8



Be weird. Be happy. Be you. xoxo


12



Rudeness is a weak person’s imitation of strength.


13, 21



My favorite actor was Robin Williams.


19



“Courage is cheaper than Channel. It works better too.” - Scott Galloway


14, 15, 16, 21



You are a miracle. Take good care of yourself: Mind, body and soul.


21