Typically, brains aren’t mature until about age 25. ADHD brains take longer


17, 21



Try using “No doesn’t tell me your needs” when toddler / little kid disobeys. “Were you trying to be funny? Do you need a minute?”


3



Resource: the website Ask, Listen and Learn has great material about how to start a conversation about the dangers of under-age drinking. asklistenlearn.org


9



We’re born full of love. Life is about choosing where you want to put it. -xo


15, 19, 21



Create tech-free zones and times.


10, 11, 12, 13, 19, 21



Buy “Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today’s Young Kids” by Kristen Jenson


8



Sometimes there’s nothing else to do with the pain except to use it to build a new life.


13. 17, 19, 21



Kids (and people of all ages) need attention, affection and appreciation. It’s not all they need, but it’s a start!


11



Alcohol is a depressant. Never drink to feel better. It will only make things hurt worse and be worse. Only drink in celebration or community. Never to numb. That sh*t is poison. Pure $@!#% juice.


18, 19, 21



Never resist a generous impulse.


9, 12, 19



Be kind. Be brave.


5-10



Don’t play hard to get. Be hard to earn.


16, 21



Adopting a “do it right now” mentality has done wonders for my organization


10, 12, 16



Learn to tie knots.


10



It’s best not to cuss but writing bad words is even worse than speaking them. Even in casual texting, etc. Always an asterisk in place of a vowel to avoid being rude.


16



I’m cool with “C”s. Do good work but don’t put too much pressure yourself.


14



Help him write a letter to someone in power if he has a question or concern about something he sees going on in the world.


7-11



Watch “The Sandlot” together. Great story about friendship and showing up for each other.


8



There are always blessings hidden within heartbreak: a friend you would never have met otherwise, an opportunity that would never have come up, an experience, an encounter, a promotion, etc. Always look for the blessings.


9, 11, 18, 21



Never open someone else's mail, or listen to their conversation, etc. If it's not your business to know, don't snoop.


14-21



“You matter to me.” Is a beautiful way to express your feelings when a relationship is new.


15, 17, 21



Hand out tulip bulbs (or some sort of bulbs) at my funeral and ask people to plant a few in their yard. But NOT daffodils. I hate daffodils. And lilies, hate ‘em.) So tulips then.


21



Watch the western “1883”.


13



Be respectful with regard to how you treat girls:. How you talk to them, how you talk about them, and even how you think about them.


11-14



Have somebody take him skiing. I never learned to ski but I hope he learns to ski or snowboard.


6-11



People have big feelings when they realize how unjust and unfair the world can be. Totally natural and healthy. The problem starts when they channel those feelings into destructive actions and beliefs: violence, war, crime and hatred. We will be so much better off if we can learn to deal with our collective and individual pain in a way that is therapeutic and constructive. Maybe we can help each other to be creative in the face of fear, grief, pain, anxiety, anger, betrayal, injustice.


14, 16, 19, 21



Summer concerts at Wolftrap- get good seats so they can really get a sense of the experience.


13-16



You can’t ask someone to change who they are before you live or accept them.


12, 15, 21



No threats, not even jokingly.


15