Mallomars in Christmas stockings. Mom NEVER buys Mallomars. But Santa does. (Reticket x 15 years.)


4



Google earth app means there's always a globe at hand. Point out states, countries or oceans when we hear about them.


4-9



Teach them about Oliver Cromwell’s rule: “I beseech you, in the bowels of Christ, think it possible that you may be mistaken.” Leave room for your mind to be changed by new evidence or perspective.


14



Love then when they least deserve it because that’s when the need it the most.


3, 13, 17



Small joys are what gets you through big grief.


14, 18, 21



It’s very difficult to pull off sarcasm in written form. It does not translate.


15



Look up crowd cow for meat delivery.


10



When making decisions or setting goals etc, approach from the perspective of your truest self. That’s integrity.


14, 18, 21



Surround yourself with people and ideas that inspire you and captivate you. Life is too short for destructive relationships.


13, 18



Plan a trip to New York City to see Hamilton.


15



Imagine hearing the apology you need to hear. Often times that really helps, even if the person never actually says it. It makes it easier to forgive and move on.


18



Spend time with people you admire, in person and biographies, documentaries, novels and movies.


14-17, 21



Every “yes” to something is a “no” to something else. Take your time processing the choices - write in your journal, sweat it out, listen to music, talk to someone you trust, read books from experts. Once you’re clear about what you’re giving up, let it go and don’t look back. (Remember there’s no advice that’s right more than 99% of the time. Always trust your gut. Just remember an impulse isn’t the same thing as a gut check.)


15, 16, 19, 21



Put your purse, (wallet,bag, phone, or shoe) in the backseat with the baby. Unattended babies die every day and it’s my worst nightmare.


Infant-3, 21



Follow your dreams…not your boyfriend’s.


16



Camp Arena Stage


8



Teach your pets they can trust you. Take care of them. Treat them with tenderness. Teach them how to behave. (Unless it's a cat. You can't teach cats anything.)


15



Attend a Pride parade.


9



Be supportive of someone who is trying to better themselves.


16



Talk about de-escalation techniques.


15



Actions have consequences- so does inaction. Avoiding a problem or decision is not an effective solution.


18



Always wear an undershirt underneath a dress shirt.


13



Teach them that when we hear sirens it means someone is in trouble but help is on the way.


2-5



If you’ve never dressed a newborn before, an easy way to get the hang of it is to lay the outfit flat on the bed and then place the baby on top of it. Tuck her little arms and legs inside one at a time, then zip or snap them in. Done!


Infant



Plan trip to Bush Gardens late September


5



Practice being okay with someone misunderstanding you. Not everyone is going to “get” you. That’s okay.


14, 19, 21



Life is difficult...Focus on the joy.


16, 20



Sometimes grief looks a lot like anger. Are you upset about something you lost or had to let go of?


15, 21



Most times there isn’t a “right decision.” You make a decision and then it’s up to you to *make* it right.


12, 16, 19, 21