"Tough times don't last. Tough people do."


11-14



1

Google earth app means there's always a globe at hand. Point out states, countries or oceans when we hear about them.


4-9



Remember Mom's birthday


2-21



Remember that your tend to act like/ think like the people you hang around most. Choose your friends (and your spouse) wisely.


10, 14, 21



If your car is overheating turn on the heat full blast. It draws heat off the engine.


16



Institute a “leave by” time instead of a curfew. That way they won’t panic / speed if something out of their control happens to make them late. “Leave Riley’s house by 10pm.”


13



Spend time with people you admire, in person and biographies, documentaries, novels and movies.


14-17, 21



Book: “victory. Stand!” By Tommie Smith


14



Life isn’t a straight line, it’s so much more complex than that! Good things, bad things, boring or interesting things are all always happening. And always changing. So are you. And that’s good.


17, 21



One of my favorite things is the smell of celery and onion being sautéed in butter. It’s the smell I woke up to on so many Thanksgiving mornings as my mom was making the stuffing.


21



Toast your wife at every occasion.


21



Give them marshmallows to suck on when they get a sore throat. Takes away the pain!


3,4,5,6



Kitchen Commandment: She who cooks the dinner shall not clean up from dinner. I don't want to raise any of you to take housework for granted. It's hard. It's unfair and not cool to expect anyone (parent, spouse, roommate, etc. )to wait on you.


7-18



Caps Game this year.


11



Sometimes progress is slow - Keep working. Sometimes change is swift - hang on!


16



Read up about the National Parks. Pick one to plan a trip to.


9



Check out Travel for Teens for summer travel programs. Let them choose from themes like service, adventure, animal rescue, etc.


14



If you don’t know what to do ask yourself how you want to feel. Once you have a good idea of that you can find lots of paths to get you there.


16, 21



Toddler years: Tater tots make everything better. The smaller ones cook faster and you don't have to turn them.


2



When disciplining remember: First acknowledge the emotion, then address the behavior.


2-4, 13, 15



1

People are insecure. Be mindful of fragile egos (we all have them to a degree.) Avoid implying that people aren't doing a good job.


20



Go as a family to local high school musical productions.


9-13



1

Universal Studios


12-18



Worry less about molding them and focus on loving them.


2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12, 14, 16, 17, 18, 19, 21



“You don’t emerge from $@!#% empty-handed” a friend once told me. Even the worst periods of your life will bring gifts. Be thankful for those gifts, and enjoy them.


19



Help him practice having tense conversations without getting a tone of voice.


15



You should feel safe with friends. They shouldn’t try to get you hurt or in trouble. Anyone who makes you feel unsafe is not your friend.


8-15



Name a few male celebrities you would feel safe with alone in a room. Keanu Reeves, Jack Black, Barack Obama, to start us off.


11, 13, 15



Talk about de-escalation techniques.


15



If you can afford to send flowers when a baby is born or when someone dies, do so.


21