Eat with purpose, not for it. Sometimes the purpose is fuel, sometimes celebration. Eat accordingly!


19, 21



Check out Harmonia School on Mill St Music Art Theatre


6



Be mindful of privilege. Discuss the concept, point it out where you see it.


11-18



Re-Read "Girls and Sex: Navigating the New Landscape" by Peggy Orenstein.


13



George Lucas’ documentaries on WWI, Russian Revolution, etc.YouTube Lucas Films.


14, 17



Start “home economics” school with them. Laundry, cleaning, cooking, how to change a diaper, comfort a baby, soothe a toddler, what's involved in caring for pets, budgeting for food, keeping track of maintenance schedules for humans, pets, cars and machines. Engage with guests, be a good host, etc. Know when and how to tell someone to GTFO of the house (racist or misogynistic speech, etc.) Every kid needs to learn the art and science of home management. Look for and point out examples in books and movies of good home science skills.


5, 8, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 21



Your very existence is a miracle. Countless cosmic events and generations of ancestors had to come together in precisely the right way at precisely the right time for you to be here now. It’s an honor to be who you are. Act accordingly.


13, 15, 18, 20, 21



Read maps.


9-14



Book recommendation: “Star Fish” by Lisa Fipps.


11



Look into summer jobs at national parks.


15, 17



“Love is giving your heart without expectation.” - Dan Fogelman


16, 21



Healing doesn’t mean becoming the best version of yourself. It’s learning to love even the worst parts about yourself.


17, 21



Always keep a clean rag within arm’s reach in the car. You never know when you might need to clean-up a spill or smash a spider while driving 50mph.


16



Adjust your expectations but never lower your standards.


12, 15, 18, 21



Keep a pair of nail clippers in the car - much better lighting outside. Clipping tiny fingernails is terrifying!


Infant-1



1

Just because I forgive you, it doesn’t mean I trust you. Trust has to be earned.


15, 18, 21



Grandpa always said everything boils down to how you treat people. Always treating people with kindness and respect is the most important lesson he wanted to get across to us.


12-21



None of us sit high enough to look down on anybody.


11, 14, 17, 21



Explain the concept: "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar."


6



“You have to meet people where they are. Sometimes, you have to leave them there.” -Iyanla Vanzant


21



Check in on your friends. Even the ones that seem fine.


14-21



1

The mind replays what the heart wants to heal.


16



Help them develop a positive attitude. http://www.momentsaday.com/10-activities-help-young-children-develop-a-positive-attitude/


5



When disciplining remember: First acknowledge the emotion, then address the behavior.


2-4, 13, 15



I like to say a Hail Mary just to join the chorus, to add my voice to the millions who are praying in that moment. The world has plenty of people thinking or doing horrible things, we need to add to the good, add to the beauty as much as possible at every turn. Saying a quick prayer is sometimes all I can muster.


9-19



Go as a family to local high school musical productions.


7-18



Songs hit so much different (better) when you read the lyrics while listening. Headphones help heighten the experience too.


12, 14, 19, 21



Brambly Hedge series by Jill Barklem.


2-5



Men worry about getting laughed at or rejected by a woman. Women worry about getting killed when they reject a man. Let that sink in.


15, 21



Sometimes I think the best way to take care of them is to teach them to take care of others: Littler kids, sick or disabled, those who’ve been left out.


5-7, 1Infant-12