Compassion: Acting with love when faced with another’s suffering.


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Let's find little ways to practice self-control and build that muscle.


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Golf lessons this year. Your grandpa loved golf. He tried to teach me when he first got sick, and those are some of my best memories of him. Great way to get fresh air and exercise too.


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Marry for character, not just chemistry.


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Check out teen life coach Coaching with Will.


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If you want to know what a woman wants in a man, I have a simple answer for you: watch the movie Scent of a Woman starring Al Pacino. Specifically, the tango scene.


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Geocaching


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Sometimes I think the best way to take care of them is to teach them to take care of others: Littler kids, sick or disabled, those who’ve been left out.


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Consider the source. Consider whose company they are in. You may not know much about issue xyz but look and see who endorses them. If people you trust place trust in them.


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So you want to be a writer- then write. Anything. Play around with it. Journal. Fiction, non-fiction, biography, obits, blogs, plays, tv pilots, whatever. You will probably suck at it. Keep writing. Write more and more. You will get better, you’ll find your flow. This w


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Be mindful of privilege. Discuss the concept, point it out where you see it.


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Read Big Magic by Liz Gilbert. Re-read every 5-10 years.


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Teach them about shaken baby syndrome.


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A dear friend of the family used to swear by the many healing properties of Seabreeze (alcohol based astringent.) She’d prescribe it for everything from sunburn to bug bites, rashes and scrapes. it stung like heck but she was right: The stuff is a miracle! I always keep a bottle Seabreeze around and think of Mimi every time I use it.


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Commonly misspelled words - find tricks for remembering. Example desert vs dessert. “Dessert” has an extra “s” for sugar. Search for mnemonics.


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We don’t always get what we want. Sometimes we have to wait. Sometimes we go without it. Sometimes when we DO get what we wanted it looks different than how we imagined it would. AND IT’S OK. We’re ok. The world keeps turning! That’s a huge lesson and a valuable one. Practice “pushing the snooze button” on wants. Enlist their help. “I understand you want ____. Would this be something you could snooze or do without?”


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Read (or listen to) A Fragile Stone together.


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Don’t worry if they’re not listening to what you say...They watch what you do. They study it.


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Never make a decision from a place of hopelessness.


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People want to be heard. Listen to your clients, even when they're upset. Don't make excuses or anything, just let them talk. They mostly just want to be heard. Once they're calm, you can solve the problem.


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You can get into big trouble (with school and the law) even by fake / joke threats of violence (bomb threat, etc.) No jokes or pranks that have anything to do with violence.


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Everything not saved will be lost. This is true for documents in Word and in life.


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Adopting a “do it right now” mentality has done wonders for my organization


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“I don’t know what I think until I write about it.” - Joan Didion


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Just because you love someone doesn’t mean they feel loved by you. Meet the kids where they are.


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Biographies: Be inspired.


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Parent the way you want your children to behave. Compassion, patience. Loving.


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