Best song for a good cry: “And so It Goes” by Billy Joel.


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Curiosity is life-giving while judgement is soul-sucking. Get curious about yourself and others. Wonder why, try to understand without judging.


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Devotion is revealed by behavior, not intention.


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Healing happens when you give up the hope that the past could have been any different. xoxo


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“People are in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Pain comes when we try to put them in the wrong category.” - random therapist I never met.


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An exercise in assumption. Have them answer “Just because I _______” doesn’t mean _________”.


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“Pain that is not transformed is transmitted.” Fr. Richard Rohr


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If you’re unable to help someone, help someone else. Throw some goodness or beauty in the bucket of humanity.


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My favorite version of myself is when I’m not worried about what others think of me. I


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The person you have the most electric connection to may not be the ideal choice for a life partner.


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Book “30 Days of Sex Talks” comes in three volumes: Ages 3-7, 8-11 And 13 . Very highly rated. Available on Amazon.


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Toddler not interested in food? Hand them a random kitchen gadget to play with while you’re feeding them dinner, they’ll eat more if distracted.


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Consider what you value. Act accordingly.


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Be ready to learn from around you. Curiosity = adventure. And when you’re curious, there’s no room for judgment.


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Go to Montgomery County Fair


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Highly recommend book about math and multiplication techniques:“The Best of Times” by Greg Tang.


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Read “Attack of the Black Rectangles” by Amy Sarid King.


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I love the quote “The call towards authenticity is sacred” by Paula S. Williams I think it means that a few things: Being called. We are called by something higher to grow and stretch, to evolve. That evolution is a journey that should be undertaken with humility, compassion and love. To impede one’s quest to be authentic, be it our own or another’s, is a grave injustice and should be avoided at all cost.


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Super good-looking people often don’t develop good people skills because they’ve been able to get by on their looks. Listen! Beauty fades. Get curious about people who don’t necessarily catch your eye right away.


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When dropping them off at a dorm, leave them with. Cookie sheet and cookie dough. Make cookies/make friends.


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For parties, collect cell phones and put them in a basket. "Parent calls only. Enjoy the people here! They're pretty awesome!"


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Re-Read "Girls and Sex: Navigating the New Landscape" by Peggy Orenstein.


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Some days it feels like your world is falling apart, but what's really happening is that it's falling into place. Make good choices. Be kind. Be brave. Trust.


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“If you want to be holy, be kind”. -Frederick Buechner


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Always wear an undershirt underneath a dress shirt.


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Purpose is more important than happiness. Having a purpose (or looking for it) will save you. (And sometimes finding a *new* purpose is what you need.)


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Practice “doing without” (or “going without.”). Even young kids can learn the concept. Nobody get everything they want. Sometimes it’s harder than others, but it’s not the end of the world when we have to do without something we want.


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Police officers and members of the military put their lives on the line to protect us. Be respectful of them and thank them for their service.


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Addiction is when you can’t get through the day without something. It’s not that you need to feel high, it’s that you can’t live without what gets you high. Humans are all wired to be at risk for addiction


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Turn on the closed captions on tv. Reading them is almost unconscious. Even better, set the audio to a language other than English and turn on English captions.


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