Writing is thinking.


14, 17. 21



My favorite Chinese food order is chicken Kung Pao, shrimp fried rice and beef lo mein. That way we all get a little of each meat.


16



“You will encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.” -Maya Angelou


17



“Remember Divas and Friends, if you don’t think good things about yourself, how do you expect anybody else to?” - Sheryl Lee Ralph


11, 12. 14. 16, 17, 19, 21



A person is only as good as how they treat you when they are angry with you.


17



Knowing something is right and application of it are two different things. To apply yourself takes discipline. Practice it.


15



When you’re in a disagreement with someone or feel you’ve been wronged, it’s helpful to remember who the other person is. Are they someone of integrity? (If they’re your friend I bet they are.) Remember then, that even though they may have done something to hurt you, they were likely believed their actions were doing (or at least trying to do) the right thing. People sometimes get it wrong. Or they don’t have all the facts. Or their mind is just somewhere else. The pain you may feel from a perceived slight is probably not intentional, but even if it is, try to forgive and let it go. We’re all just doing the best we can.


16, 21



Read “Lighter” by Yung Pueblo. Read it every year.


17, 19, 21



All behavior is communication.


2-6



My best parenting advice


1, 2, 3, 6, 8, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17



Enroll in a CPR course. Re-certify every year.


13



“Tell me the story of your day.” (Works better than “how was your day?”


5, 6, 10



Resist the urge to give unsolicited advice. Wait…this entire thing is unsolicited advice!


15



Give baby a banana before bed and they’ll sleep through the night. (Obviously once they’re on solid food.)


1



Home is where they love you.


13, 17, 21



Partnership or pride…pick one.


21



A man is not a financial plan.


17



I read this quote in a blog when my oldest was little: "You will never be more needed or more loved than you are right now. You will long for the days when your kids were little." So true. These years are exhausting, but hang in there. You are their sun and moon.


2



Be mindful of privilege. Discuss the concept, point it out where you see it.


11-18



Send them outside with an age-appropriate pair of scissors and have them “give the grass a haircut.” Fine motor skills!


2-4



Learn to recognize invitations from the Lord - invitations to look at beauty. Invitations for compassion, for learning and for love.


9-15



"The only way to work through sh*tty feelings is to walk through sh*tty feelings." - Psychologist Kristen Howe Hard lesson, but big truth.


15



ADHD hack for studying or projects- Leave yourself notes about where you left off.


13, 21



Bottom line bible quote: Psalm 37:3 “Trust in the LORD and do good.” That pretty much covers everything.


13, 21



Sesame Street has great resources on teaching finances to little ones.


4-5



Read "You Can’t buy a Dinosaur with a Dime" by Harriet Ziefert. Teaches kids about earning money through work, making choices, even paying taxes!


9



Always keep a clean rag within arm’s reach in the car. You never know when you might need to clean-up a spill or smash a spider while driving 50mph.


16



Drills (Writing pages of lines, grammar games,etc) Contractions, pronouns, commonly misspelled words, homophones like their and they’re, etc.) Drill drill drill! Written communication is so important and a simple mistake could cost big points at work.)


12



The moment you lose your cool, you’ve lost.


12,13, 14, 15, 16, 21



Watch the political conventions every election year. Listen and decide for yourself.


17, 18, 21