SAT Prep https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/10/opinion/how-i-learned-to-take-the-sat-like-a-rich-kid.html


16



Not knowing what you’re doing is a lot less terrifying than not knowing who to trust.


14, 19, 21



Take out your aggression on inanimate things, never on people or animals.


9



I’d rather you be brave than perfect. Take chances. Fail, then pick yourself up and keep going.


18



Sometimes, no matter how great a thing is it can’t make up for what it’s not.


14, 19, 21



Do what makes you happy. But what if you’re not sure what that might be? If you’re at a crossroads and you don’t know where you *want* to go, just go where you’re *needed.* That’s a good first step. Trust the Lord to take it from there.


18



Learn what triggers you. It’s probably just two or three things. Work on your issues


14, 18. 21



“You don’t emerge from $@!#% empty-handed” a friend once told me. Even the worst periods of your life will bring gifts. Be thankful for those gifts, and enjoy them.


19



You are 100% replaceable at work. You are not replaceable at home. A good work ethic is crucial but don’t drain yourself to the point that you don’t have anything left for your family and friends.


21



Check out fencing. Local fencing club has classes for kids and adults all ages. They also do birthday parties, so that might be something different that would be fun for him and his friends.


10



You’re someone’s cup of tea. I don’t mean there is only one person out there for you, I mean someone is waiting to love you exactly how you are. Stop wasting time with fools who want to change you to fit their ideal.


15, 19, 21



Sometimes there’s nothing you can say or do to help someone feel better. In times like that, just make sure you don’t make it worse.


14, 18, 21



You don’t owe me a thing. Live your life as you will. I will always love you.


18, 21



Let's find little ways to practice self-control and build that muscle.


11



Bring Christmas cookies to local fire station and police station. (Annually)


7-14



Never say anything behind someone's back that you wouldn't say to their face.


11, 14, 18



A hard day’s work is something to be proud of, not afraid of.


8, 12, 15, 20



Talk about how choices become habits. Habits can become addictions. Describe how pathways are literally dug into the brain and it's very hard to change them once those paths are made.


13-16



“You don’t get what you deserve. You get what you negotiate.” - name escapes me


15, 19, 21



Affection is to be shared, never taken.


14



Your body and brain are always trying to protect you.


17



Give books. Inscribe them. Just a line or two can turn a good book into a treasure. Great for any occasion.


17



Just love ‘em up. Be patient and kind. Be present. Listen. Play. Take care of their needs. Each one will be different and need you in different ways. That’s all, just fill them with love and security and they’ll grow up beautifully.


1-18



Read The Invisible Boy by Trudy Ludwig.


4



The opposite of addiction is connection. Genuine connection can take lots of forms.


14, 17, 19, 21



I’m parenting as in most things, staying calm is more than half the battle. Practice keeping your cool in all situations. No yelling blaming freaking out or meanness. Calm rules the day.


1, 21



Talk about what patterns of abuse look like. Teach them to recognize red flags like love-bombing, isolating from friends and family, controlling behavior and threats of violence and/or self-harm.


14, 16, 20, 21



Keep stuff on hand for guests. Be ready to be a good host / hostess at any moment.


16-21



“Pirate Rules” is a temporary suspension of the usual rules. It means pretty much anything goes for this moment so we can all stay sane. ——-Loosen the rules on snacks, bedtime, screen time, etc. in special circumstances.


1-5