Marriage tip: King sized blanket on Queen size bed.


21



Start a vegetable garden.


7



Staying calm is 90% of the battle. Practice.


13, 15, 18, 21



You are never too old to play in the snow.


16



“Human beings are linked, not ranked.” - Gloria Steinem (f*ck the patriarchy)


15



Find an activity / sport that they enjoy and support it. Get them outside and in the fresh air.


6-16



Pool safety- never touch equipment and always have a grownup present when swimming.


3-8



Sometimes it’s easier to describe what a thing is *not* than to describe what it is.


14, 21



Born To Dance has lessons and also does birthday parties. A dance class is a good way to get up and out of the house on Saturday mornings during the winter months. It'll be fun at this age - while he's still young enough to enjoy it without being self-conscious. Also a good way to get exercise before he's ready for organized sports.


4-5



“You will use up everything you got trying to give people what they want.” —- Nina Simone


17



There are a lot of people I care about. But I’ve decided there are only four whose opinion of me I care about: My kid, my god, myself and my dog.


18



Geocaching


5-11



Sometimes the job will require you to do menial tasks. Do them enthusiastically because nothing is “beneath you.” If the good Lord can wash people’s feet, you can make coffee at the office. Get over yourself.


16, 21



Let’s look for examples of bravery.


8



Go to movie Star Wars


12



Worry less about molding them and focus on loving them.


2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12, 14, 16, 17, 18, 19, 21



In social situations it's better to talk too little than too much. Don't over-share with people you're not close to.


15



1

Sponsor a child in a developing country. Write letters, learn about their country and their life.


8



Try not to say insulting or hurtful things, but NEVER write them. (Texts, notes, emails, etc.)


11



You’ve been entrusted with so much. Think about how much of an honor that is, and how big a responsibility.


16, 18, 21



Go as a family to local high school musical productions.


9-13



1

Super good-looking people often don’t develop good people skills because they’ve been able to get by on their looks. Listen! Beauty fades. Get curious about people who don’t necessarily catch your eye right away.


16, 19, 21



Google Taylor Swift contrast Kim Kardashion at 2024 Superbowl. Good vibes are always better than “cool.” Show up. Dog park energy. Forget trying to look cool.


15, 17, 18, 21



I’ve stopped worrying about you being able to make your way through life. You’re not even 8 years old and I can see you’re going to be just fine. You’re smart, kind, curious, hilarious and so very lovable. I worry about your safety, I stress about your health, but I don’t worry about your character. I’m so proud of you, and I love watching you grow.


14



Toddler years: Tater tots make everything better. The smaller ones cook faster and you don't have to turn them.


2



Practice these skills: Love yourself Respect yourself Value yourself Enjoy yourself


4, 6, 8, 12, 15, 17, 21



Universal Studios


12-18



Alcoholism and gambling addiction run in our family. Be very, very careful around booze and gambling.


14,16, 18, 21



Face it. Whatever it is, show up with your most powerful self. Make decisions from a point of power, not fear. Sometimes the answer is to retreat, care for the injured, mourn the losses. Strategize. Prepare and then attack.


14. 15, 17, 18, 19, 21