Read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe together.


8



“You will encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.” -Maya Angelou


17



“I don’t give a rat’s $@!#% how much respect u garner out in the world if you don’t show respect and love and serve those you love at home.” ____loosely quoted from Glennon Doyle’s ‘Untamed.’


14, 19



Educate yourself. You can't solve a problem if you don't understand it.


14-21



Sex isn’t something you “score.” It’s not a competition. Whether the encounter is casual or within a committed relationship it’s something that is shared.


16, 19, 20



Discuss difference between foods that taste good vs. foods that make you FEEL good.


12-14



Start a tradition of setting goals for Ne Year. Keep a notebook in with the Christmas ornaments and each year we all add in whatever we want to focus on: such as our resolutions, goals, hope or plans, etc. That will be something fun to do at the end of the year when we’re taking down the tree and putting away all the holiday stuff.


8



Sometimes I think the best way to take care of them is to teach them to take care of others: Littler kids, sick or disabled, those who’ve been left out.


5-7, 1Infant-12



“The beginning parts are always the scariest.” -Jackson Daily (kid reporter on Today Show.)


10, 12, 16



Teach them that when we hear sirens it means someone is in trouble but help is on the way.


2-5



Marry your hero.


21



Some kids have trouble with learning how to managing their anger and other big feelings. We all do! It’s good to give them grace. But steer clear of those who think mean is cool. You don’t have time for anyone who actually tries to be an a-hole.


6, 9, 12, 16, 21



The most important things I can teach you is how to love and be loved


14, 19, 21



Two words: Kinetic Sand.


3



Wintergreen snow sledding trip.


6



Sometimes procrastination is part of the process. Eventually though, doing the thing is easier than stressing over it or hiding from it.


10. 12, 15, 21



I’m going to keep from telling them how to feel.


4-18



It's very important to me, the idea of the scale of good and bad, of beauty and suffering. I think we should do everything we can to increase the beauty and to take away from the suffering. We have to work hard to tip the scale in the direction of good.


1Infant-14



"Love is nothing more and nothing less than relentlessly showing up for your people." - Glennon Doyle


18-21



When making decisions or setting goals etc, approach from the perspective of your truest self. That’s integrity.


14, 18, 21



YouTube Randy Pauch The Last Lecture. Watch together.


14



Open a Bank Account


8-12



If you don’t know what to do ask yourself how you want to feel. Once you have a good idea of that you can find lots of paths to get you there.


16, 21



Get at least 2, preferably 3 estimates on any major expenses for home or car.


21



Sometimes rejection is God’s protection. If u worked hard and gave it your all and still missed the bus, that bus wasn’t yours. Read The Artist’s Way.


17



Robin Williams was one of the best examples of how to be a good human.


15, 19, 21



“First things first!” It’s a constant struggle to get out of the house or complete a task. Hammer home “first things first!” After they’re dressed (or whatever task) THEN they can have screen time or playtime free-time, etc.


4



Just for the record, I didn’t vote for Trump. I want my great-grandchildren to know that.


18



1

I’m cool with “C”s. Do good work but don’t put too much pressure yourself.


14



Talk about how choices become habits. Habits can become addictions. Describe how pathways are literally dug into the brain and it's very hard to change them once those paths are made.


13-16