Ask your emotions “why” three times.


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Work towards your goal. If you screw-up, fix it. The worst thing you could do is give up just because you made a mistake. Nobody’s perfect. Keep going!


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Pour energy into what’s right with you and see what happens.


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Re-Read "Girls and Sex: Navigating the New Landscape" by Peggy Orenstein.


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Resist the urge to give unsolicited advice. Wait…this entire thing is unsolicited advice!


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You an learn just about anything on Google or YouTube! Spend some time exploring together and caution about how to search safely.


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Begin again. Whether by choice or necessity, sometimes there’s no other option.


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Spend time with people you admire, in person and biographies, documentaries, novels and movies.


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Most people are good. Some are bad. Many are crazy.


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Sesame Street has great resources on teaching finances to little ones.


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Check out Travel for Teens for summer travel programs. Let them choose from themes like service, adventure, animal rescue, etc.


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Keep difficult conversations brief. Under ten minutes then table it so everyone can process.


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“First the pain. Then the waiting. Then the rising.” Glennon Doyle


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Be teachable. If you walk around thinking you know it all, your career and relationships will suffer. Consider how much you have to learn and welcome any opportunity to learn. “Teach me” instead of “I don’t know.”


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At dinner time, go around the table and share your “highs and lows” for the day. (Re-ticket up to 21)


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The app "Bark" detects messaging containing cyber-bullying, sexting, signs of depression or suicidal thoughts, etc.


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Summers in Ireland and UK Drama camps? I could work from there while he did his thing.


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“The more you sweat, the less you bleed.” True in boxing and in life. Put the work in. No shortcuts.


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Attend a Pride parade.


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Make a pound of ground beef go further by adding chopped cabbage or mushrooms.


19



You will never be good enough for the wrong person. This truth is profound and one I wish I learned a lot earlier in my life. Stop tripping over yourself to please someone who doesn’t get you.


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“You’ll never be alone when you carry a poet in your pocket.” - John Adams Bring a book with you wherever you go.


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A person’s friends are a reflection of their character. Pick friends who you can be yourself around. Look for partners who have close friendships, a circle of friends who think highly of them.


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“Anger is the part of yourself that loves you the most. It knows when you are being mistreated, neglected, or disrespected. It signals that you have to take a step out of a place that doesn’t do you justice. It makes you aware that you need to leave a room, a job, a relationship, and old patterns that don’t work for you anymore. Learn to listen to your anger and make it your best friend. Then it’ll leave.” -author unknown


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Forget perfection. Nothing is perfect. No relationship, job, house, or day is perfect. Let go of expectations, be open to the mess.


18



“Tell me something you want to be when you grow up.”


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Check out O.School Originals for sex-ed resources.


14



The thing about behavior is that if you practice you get better. That goes for good behavior and bad behavior. The more you lie, cheat, etc. the better u get. Decide What kind of behavior you want to be good at and then practice practice


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Love isn’t enough but it’s a great start.


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101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think by Brianna Wiest. Listen to it yearly!


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