Netflix “Who Was?” A biography show for kids.


6-8



Birthday traditions: 1) Plant something every year. 2) Birthday interview on camera or voice recording.


5



Knowing something is right and application of it are two different things. To apply yourself takes discipline. Practice it.


15



Being numb is not the same thing as being happy.


15-18



You’re gonna be misunderstood a lot. Some people just won’t like you. It’s okay. Wish them well and let it go.


10, 13, 16, 21



Go to Planet Word and do the Lexicon Lane puzzle experience.


12



You never know what people are going through. Depression, PTSD, anxiety could look like avoidance, anger, risk-taking, promiscuity, etc. Look out for friends, coworkers and loved ones who may be in pain. You don’t need to solve their problem, just allow for the possibility that they’re going through something. Try to give them the benefit of the doubt and not write off “bad” behavior as a character flaw. Offer a non-judgmental ear.


15, 20



Train for a mini-triathlon together as a family this year.


12



A man is not a financial plan.


17



Go for walks together as a family before or after dinner. Sometimes we go for distance, sometimes we call them "safaris" and look for as many living creatures as we can find.


4



The whole point of Pride is a recognition and celebration of the fact that you don’t have to be anything other than your truest nature (as defined by you!) No matter gay, straight, bi, trans, etc. Be proud of who you are.) xo


10, 14, 18, 21



Never open someone else's mail, or listen to their conversation, etc. If it's not your business to know, don't snoop.


14-21



Staying calm is 90% of the battle. Practice.


13, 15, 18, 21



“Pain that is not transformed is transmitted.” Fr. Richard Rohr


14



Make a pound of ground beef go further by adding chopped cabbage or mushrooms.


19



If you’re unable to help someone, help someone else. Throw some goodness or beauty in the bucket of humanity.


16



Pour energy into what’s right with you and see what happens.


20, 21



You don’t have to like everyone you go to school with, or work with. You don’t even have to like your family! BUT, you have to treat everyone with respect and kindness. They are worthy of that no matter what your opinion of them may be.


15, 21



Just love them. With all your might, them for who they are, and where they are. Forget about the other stuff.


15



If someone doesn’t want your attention or warrant your attention, don’t give it.


15



What I most want to teach you this year is that you can always trust me. I will always love you, take care of you and never harm you. You may not always like me, but you can always trust me.


1



Don't say anything out loud that you wouldn't want repeated or overheard. Don't email / text, etc. anything that you wouldn't want forwarded.


11-15



1

I’d rather you be brave than perfect. Take chances. Fail, then pick yourself up and keep going.


18



An exercise in assumption. Have them answer “Just because I _______” doesn’t mean _________”.


10



Sex isn’t something you “score.” It’s not a competition. Whether the encounter is casual or within a committed relationship it’s something that is shared.


16, 19, 20



Help them develop a positive attitude. http://www.momentsaday.com/10-activities-help-young-children-develop-a-positive-attitude/


5



“The beginning parts are always the scariest.” -Jackson Daily (kid reporter on Today Show.)


10, 12, 16



Be a safe place. Teach them to be a safe place too.


12



Dress to people will listen to you, not look at you. (This is especially true at school and work.)


15, 18, 21



1

Consider the source. When you get information, look at where or who it’s coming from. Do you trust them? Are they an expert? When someone criticizes you. Do they know why they’re talking about and are they taking chances themselves. Pay no attention to hecklers.


15