Be a good guest. Never arrive to a dinner or a party empty handed. Bring a gift: flowers, food, drink, etc.


18



Life doesn’t have to turn out like you imagined it would in order to be AMAZING.


19



Intimacy is a feeling of safety. To let yourself be seen, touched, known, without defenses.


17, 21



“The Greatest Generation” by Tom Brokaw Listen to audio or read together


14



Marry your hero.


21



You can love someone and still not tolerate their abuse. Protect your peace and safety.


17, 21



Let's talk about what armor you choose. People use all kinds of props and attitudes to try to protect or soothe themselves. Often it's that armor that ends up being much worse than the scary problems they were trying to avoid in the first place. Developing a healthy set of armor is crucial. Let's talk about some healthy ways to make ourselves feel better. Reference Brene Brown wholeheartedness.


12-16



Read “Lighter” by Yung Pueblo. Read it every year.


17, 19, 21



Not knowing what you’re doing is a lot less terrifying than not knowing who to trust.


14, 19, 21



Read everything Brene Brown ever wrote.


20



“Your life unfolds in proportion to your courage.” -Danielle Le Port


15, 18



Plants eat sunlight. Eat mostly plants.


14, 17, 21



Drills (Writing pages of lines, grammar games,etc) Contractions, pronouns, commonly misspelled words, homophones like their and they’re, etc.) Drill drill drill! Written communication is so important and a simple mistake could cost big points at work.)


12



Having an opinion is not the same thing as having an informed opinion. If you don't know enough about a subject to speak intelligently about it, keep quiet and educate yourself.


12, 18



Doing something you don’t want to do just to look cool is the opposite of cool.


9, 11, 14, 15, 19, 21



If you ever borrow someone’s car, return it with a full tank of gas.


20



Behind every behavior is a need.


2, 3, 4, 13, 14



Great reminders for how to deal with belligerent kids. https://mailchi.mp/ahaparenting/8-things-you-can-do-when-your-child-is-belligerent


4



Mackinac Island trip


10



Hike Jones Run Falls at Shenandoah National Park.


11



Rainstorms are gangrenous- avoid driving in them or being out on foot. I’ve personally known people who have died from lightening strikes (running) and falling tree limbs (in their car. The mom in drivers’ seat and child in front seat both died.)


16



The universe is cheering for you!


14, 16, 18, 20



Pour energy into what’s right with you and see what happens.


20, 21



Start playing Jokers and Marbles. Get it on Amazon or Etsy.


9



Partnership or pride…pick one.


21



The more you move, the happier you are.


10, 11, 13, 15, 18, 21



Don’t play hard to get. Be hard to earn.


16, 21



Watch documentary The Rescue together.


15



Stand up (or sit up) straight in photos. Don’t slouch or lean. (You can touch or be close but don’t lean in.)


12, 14, 21



Watch film “Radio” (2003) and talk about being brave. Teach them that doing what’s right takes courage.


8