I’d rather you be brave than perfect. Take chances. Fail, then pick yourself up and keep going.


18



Bottom line bible quote: Psalm 37:3 “Trust in the LORD and do good.” That pretty much covers everything.


13, 21



The universe is cheering for you!


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When driving in the car with your kids, ask them to count motorcycles, cyclists, pedestrians. Prize to the highest count! This will train them to be on the lookout for them.


10



You will never have to hustle for your self-worth. You are worthy of love and respect simply because you exist. Same goes for every other human.


16



Grandpa used to keep a hundred dollar bill stashed discreetly in his wallet “for emergencies.”


17



Listen to podcast “1912” about an incident of alarming racial injustice Forsyth County GA.


12



Become habitual about doing that which makes you feel good and yourself and fulfilled. If it’s running, make running a habit and dedicate time for it.


16, 21



The mind replays what the heart wants to heal.


16



Try out Petra Lingua online language courses for kids. (Ages 3-10)


4



Make sure you always have Uber gift cards on hand for friends, emergencies or whatever.


15-18



Speak up when it’s called for: Fight injustice, stand up for others, etc. but shut the F up if you’re thinking about offering an unsolicited opinion or advice about anything you’re not personally an expert in.


12, 16



Don’t play hard to get. Be hard to earn.


16, 21



Google Taylor Swift contrast Kim Kardashion at 2024 Superbowl. Good vibes are always better than “cool.” Show up. Dog park energy. Forget trying to look cool.


15, 17, 18, 21



Google the “tea metaphor” for a discussion about consent.


17



Universal Studios


12-18



Live a life of dignity and joy.


14, 21



“You’ll never be alone when you carry a poet in your pocket.” - John Adams Bring a book with you wherever you go.


12, 19



Be weird. Be happy. Be you. xoxo


12



I want you to remember that for the first three years of your life I couldn’t take a poop without you on my lap. So there will be no shirking hugs from Mom now that you’re a teenager. xoxo


14



Girls: does he put in the effort even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable for him?


16, 20, 21



Focus on the lesson not the pain.


14, 21



I hope you become more of yourself with every passing year. I love you so.


21



Healing takes time. You can't rush it. Whether it's your body, your mind or your heart that's hurting... you just have to let it heal in its own time. What you CAN do is to take good care of yourself: eat, rest, stay close to loved ones. Do things that bring you joy. Revel in the smallest steps forward. You'll heal, things will get better. Trust. Love. Serve. Live.


20



Paying extra for organic isn’t always worth it but I ALWAYS buy organic apples. They taste better and don’t have the pesticides, etc.


18



“First things first!” It’s a constant struggle to get out of the house or complete a task. Hammer home “first things first!” After they’re dressed (or whatever task) THEN they can have screen time or playtime free-time, etc.


4



Fire drills. Practice what to do, where to go if the house is on fire. Have an escape plan.


5-10



I read this quote in a blog when my oldest was little: "You will never be more needed or more loved than you are right now. You will long for the days when your kids were little." So true. These years are exhausting, but hang in there. You are their sun and moon.


2



“If the pain was deep you will have to let it go many times.” Yung Pueblo from book Lighter


15, 18, 21



Look into "OK Go" videos.


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