Let's find little ways to practice self-control and build that muscle.


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Keep going. Push yourself. The struggle makes it all the more worth it.


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When you feel like giving up, rest. But then keep going! So many good things ahead. So many people that are meant to be in your life who you haven’t met yet.


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Rain, snow or sleet...Always return the shopping cart to the proper spot in the parking lot.


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Save where you can. Spend when you have to. Splurge every once in a while.


15, 21



Read “Spare” by Prince Harry.


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Sex isn’t something you “score.” It’s not a competition. Whether the encounter is casual or within a committed relationship it’s something that is shared.


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Some days it feels like your world is falling apart, but what's really happening is that it's falling into place. Make good choices. Be kind. Be brave. Trust.


15, 21



Don’t bring a complaint without offering a solution.


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You can get into big trouble (with school and the law) even by fake / joke threats of violence (bomb threat, etc.) No jokes or pranks that have anything to do with violence.


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C.S. Lewis books. (Children’s and adult.)


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There are always blessings hidden within heartbreak: a friend you would never have met otherwise, an opportunity that would never have come up, an experience, an encounter, a promotion, etc. Always look for the blessings.


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Staying calm while under pressure or when you could scream in frustration - that is most of the battle. Sometimes the fact that you stayed calm qualifies as a win.


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Shirts and pants don't go into the laundry inside-out. From now on, they will be responsible for turning their laundry right-side-out. Will help instill that laundry is not done by the laundry fairy.


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“If you want to be holy, be kind”. -Frederick Buechner


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Sometimes rejection is God’s protection. If u worked hard and gave it your all and still missed the bus, that bus wasn’t yours. Read The Artist’s Way.


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Don’t worry about finding your person. Focus on finding your people.


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The Language of the Universe: A Visual Exploration of Mathematics https://www.amazon.com/dp/1536215058/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_R83V51QC1RGYVEZ4ESMQ


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Watch TED talk on Rejection Therapy: “What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang”


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All behavior is communication.


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Life is hard. But it's not so hard you can't figure it out. You're going to be fine. xoxo


11-21



open your own business


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Kitchen Commandment: She who cooks the dinner shall not clean up from dinner. I don't want to raise any of you to take housework for granted. It's hard. It's unfair and not cool to expect anyone (parent, spouse, roommate, etc. )to wait on you.


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"Love is nothing more and nothing less than relentlessly showing up for your people." - Glennon Doyle


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I hope you become more of yourself with every passing year. I love you so.


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You don’t have to be friends with people you don’t like. But you can’t decide you don’t like someone unless you get to know them. (Rather than a look or a reputation or a difference, etc.)


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Look into YMCA “family camp” in PA.


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Great reminders for how to deal with belligerent kids. https://mailchi.mp/ahaparenting/8-things-you-can-do-when-your-child-is-belligerent


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